It’s been quite some time since my last update. My last blog was back in October, and I was just starting to work at Costco. Well, I’m still there about 32 hours a week. I’ve actually developed tendonitis in my right arm as a result of lifting 1000 packs of water bottles and dog food over and over again. This injury prevented me from doing much typing, so I was unable to blog. The whole family has had to adjust to me working and not always being around. Previously, I had done all the work around the house. Heather was able to come home and just play with the boys, watch a little TV, and go to bed. She never had to worry about laundry, cooking, cleaning, and endlessly picking up toys. Now that I’m working (and hurt), she had to do almost everything which has certainly been a hard transition. Things around the house aren’t quite as neat and tidy as they were, but Heather is starting to figure out how to balance her time between the boys and the house work. As my arms continue to get better, the workload will start to even out as I will be able to pick up the slack where I could not before. The most difficult transition for me is my time with Ethan. I miss my buddy. I only get to have 2 meals a week with him. I probably only see him about 8 hours each week. Ethan started to have some behavior problems at school and at home, and it was very tough for me not to be around to work with him and help curb the issues. Ethan had a period of adjustment as well. Around the same time I started working, Ethan began waking up at 4:00am (some times even earlier), his yeast treatment was coming to an end , and his therapist at ABA were changing. (Ms Amanda we miss you) Soon after, his behaviors started. Spitting and potty accidents were the biggest problems. Both of which are starting to decrease and seem to be fading now. Even through these behaviors are occuring he is still making progress and is more in tune to what's going on. Ethan will begin a new treatment plan which I will explain in a future blog. Gavin is as happy as ever. He’s growing smarter and smarter, bigger and bigger, and sweeter and sweeter. He’s does so good now playing with other kids. He used to be shy and timid when we went to playplaces at the mall or McDonalds. Now, he goes right up to kids and even takes the lead in play. Being a shy guy myself, this makes me very happy. I want him to be much more outgoing than I ever was, and he is on his way. Gavin LOVED being a pirate on Halloween, and he had a blast at Thanksgiving. We had a very low key turkey day. We bought a precooked chicken that served as our turkey and bought a pumpkin pie. Heather made sweet potatoes. That’s it. That was our Thanksgiving. We spent the rest of the day getting ready for Christmas. We’re all looking forward to Christmas. Can’t wait to go home to St Louis and see all the family. Heather and I are looking forward to some much much much needed together time. We plan to take full advantage of the babysitters we will have.
One last thing to mention today.
Today we say good bye to the absolute best ABA therapist in the state of Texas and maybe the world!! Ms Ashley is leaving the Behavior Exchange :( She is selfishly taking her new baby back home to be closer to her family. I’m only kidding Ms Ashley. I guess we are the ones being selfish. Although, I was good and did not follow through with the silent treatment I suggested we give you:)
Ms Ashley will not only be missed by Heather and I, but Ethan will miss her too. Ethan loves him some Ms Ashley. He gives her lots of hugs and kisses; so much so that, honestly, it made us a little jealous from time to time. Just a tad. We were so happy over the connection they seemed to have we got over it quickly. Perhaps, the best thing about Ms Ashley is she really liked Ethan too. She was genuinely excited to see Ethan succeed. I think she will even miss Mr Ethan too.
After our previous bad luck with school and other ABA centers, we were not all that optimistic. Ms Ashley has given us hope for Ethan, and future therapists. Ethan has grown so much working with her. She has been so awesome, and she will be the benchmark for which all future therapist will be judged. Brace yourself guys, the bar has been set pretty high.
UPDATE:
Dropping off Ethan this morning. Ms Ashley nearly brought me to tears. I can't remember the exact words because I was trying not to cry in front of her. Basically, she said that Ethan has touched her life, and working with him, has made her a better therapist. I was so touched by those words. I just had to share that with everyone.
UPDATE:
Dropping off Ethan this morning. Ms Ashley nearly brought me to tears. I can't remember the exact words because I was trying not to cry in front of her. Basically, she said that Ethan has touched her life, and working with him, has made her a better therapist. I was so touched by those words. I just had to share that with everyone.